I honestly doubt having a list would've made a difference in any of their choice of boyfriends. while I reallyyy hope that the day doesn't come when I have to completely disregard my list because of desperation for a relationship, I certainly don't mind setting it aside for the suitable guy for me.ĭo I think every girl should have a list? (maybe.) I have a bunch of friends in relationships, some happy some strained, some expected some unexpected. I know I can't just conjure my ideal boyfriend, but the list just kinda reminds me of my basic standards. Of course, at the end of the day, chemistry and attraction could override my list any day. ![]() so is it really asking for too much if I can give that much? I lowkey agree with them because where am I gonna find a 6' boyfriend who looks better than average, has some hobbies, AND is a decent human being (maybe outside SG?) □ idk I went through the list with one of my friends and except the comparative portions and certain physical attributes, I tick most the boxes myself. or someone asks you to show a picture of your ugliest ex and you can't pick □īesides that, most people older than me (in their 20s and above) say that my list is unrealistic and shallow. like idk imagine you're playing truth or dare and someone asks you to rank your exes and you don't know who to put at the bottom of the list because they all belong there. also I feel like it's kinda embarrassing to say you've dated certain people oops, kinda like a nasty remark on your dating record. I'd still talk to different types of guys but I just wouldn't dedicate myself to someone who couldn't be my boyfriend. My sister said that my list is stupid because it seems as though I'm dating to marry, which I'm really not. the list kinda grounds me and reminds me of what I'd be willing to accept □ being emotionally attached to a guy who I would never even be in a relationship with is simply disrespectful to myself. ![]() I don't think that I'm a particularly special catch, but I feel like my time and effort is worth more than most of the guys I've put it into. I realised that I've wasted a lot of energy and time on guys who weren't even giving me what I was looking for lol. Here's my justification for genuinely using and updating the list. it prompted me to reflect on my past situationships / non-platonic interactions with guys and like truly REFLECT □ It all started out during a random recess break where my friends and I were discussing our dream man and then we decided to write it in our notes app. this list is basically one where I've noted down my ideal type, from physical attributes, to personality traits, to super shallow/stupid habits. ![]() Recently, I've been getting questioned and teased a lot for my LIST.
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